Baby Refusing Solid Foods? Causes and Solutions
You've prepared homemade baby food with love, only to have your little one turn their head away. It's frustrating and worrying. The good news? Food refusal is extremely common and usually temporary.
Why Do Babies Refuse Solid Foods?
1. Not Developmentally Ready
The ideal time to start solids is around 6 months. However, every baby develops differently. Check for these readiness signs:
- Can hold head up and sit with support
- Shows interest in food (watching you eat)
- Lost the tongue-thrust reflex
- Can move food to throat and swallow
2. Not Hungry
If you offer solids right after breastfeeding or a bottle, your baby may simply be too full. Try offering solids 1-2 hours after milk.
3. Unfamiliar Taste or Texture
Babies need to try a new food 10-15 times before accepting it. Don't give up after one or two rejections!
4. Teething Discomfort
Sore gums make eating uncomfortable. Try cold foods or teething toys before meals.
5. Illness or Discomfort
Colds, ear infections, or mouth sores reduce appetite. Check for fever or other symptoms and see your doctor if concerned.
6. Overtired
Sleepy or overtired babies don't want to eat. Avoid mealtimes right before or after naps.
7 Strategies to Encourage Eating
1. Create a Relaxed Mealtime
Turn off screens, make eye contact, and keep the atmosphere pleasant. No pressure!
2. Start Small
Begin with 1-2 teaspoons. Too much food on the plate can be overwhelming.
3. Repeat Exposure
Offer the same food for 3-5 consecutive days. If refused today, try again tomorrow!
4. Adjust Texture and Temperature
- Try thinner or thicker consistency
- Serve lukewarm (not too hot or cold)
- Mix with breast milk or formula for familiar taste
5. Let Baby Explore
Try baby-led weaning (BLW) and let baby touch and play with food. Yes, it's messy, but positive food experiences matter more than clean floors.
6. Model Eating
Eat in front of your baby. Say "yummy!" with enthusiasm. Babies learn by watching.
7. Try Different Spoons
Sometimes the spoon is the problem—too big, wrong material. Try silicone spoons or smaller sizes.
What NOT to Do
- ❌ Force food into baby's mouth
- ❌ Feed while baby is crying
- ❌ Distract with TV or phone while feeding
- ❌ Switch to a new food every time baby refuses
- ❌ Show frustration or anger
When to See a Doctor
- Refuses all solids for more than 2 weeks
- Weight loss or failure to gain weight
- Also refuses breast milk or formula
- Fever, vomiting, or diarrhea
- Difficulty swallowing
Remember: Food refusal is usually temporary. Be patient, keep mealtimes positive, and don't stress. A few days of refusal is perfectly normal. Take it slow!