Baby Colic Guide

A healthy baby crying intensely for no apparent reason - that's colic. It's incredibly hard, but it does end.

What is Colic?

When a healthy, well-fed baby cries for no obvious reason for more than 3 hours a day, more than 3 days a week, for more than 3 weeks. This is called the "Rule of 3s."

Timeline

  • Starts: Around 2-3 weeks old
  • Peaks: Around 6 weeks old
  • Ends: By 3-4 months old
  • Affects about 20-25% of babies

Symptoms

  • Sudden intense crying
  • Usually occurs in evening/night
  • Fists clenched, legs pulled toward belly
  • Face turns red
  • Difficult to soothe
  • Cries again shortly after feeding
  • Lots of gas and passing gas

Causes

The exact cause is still unknown:

  • Immature digestive system: Gas, stomach discomfort
  • Immature nervous system: Overstimulation
  • Gut bacteria: Imbalanced microbiome
  • Lactose intolerance: Temporary
  • Mother's diet: Dairy, caffeine effects
  • Overstimulation: Accumulated fatigue

Soothing Techniques

The 5 S's

  • Swaddling: Wrap snugly in a blanket
  • Side/Stomach: Hold on side (always put back to sleep on back)
  • Shushing: Make loud "shh" sounds
  • Swinging: Gentle rhythmic motion
  • Sucking: Offer pacifier

Tummy Massage

  • Circle around belly button clockwise
  • "I Love You" massage technique
  • Bicycle legs: Gently move legs alternately
  • Knees to chest: Gently press

Burping & Gas Relief

  • Burp during and after feeds
  • Hold upright for 10-15 minutes after feeding
  • Gas drops (simethicone): Effectiveness varies

Environment

  • White noise: Vacuum, hair dryer sounds
  • Vibration: Bouncer, car ride
  • Warm bath
  • Dark and quiet environment

Feeding Considerations

Breastfeeding

  • Check mom's diet: Reduce dairy, caffeine
  • Empty one breast fully before switching
  • Ensure baby gets hindmilk (fattier milk at end)
  • Probiotics (L. reuteri) may help

Formula Feeding

  • Try colic-relief formula
  • Hydrolyzed formula: Easier to digest
  • Anti-colic bottles: Reduce air intake
  • Check nipple flow rate

Taking Care of Yourself

Caring for a colicky baby is exhausting:

  • Take turns with partner/family
  • Don't blame yourself for the crying
  • Ask for help
  • If you're at your limit, put baby in a safe place and step away briefly
  • Never shake your baby: Risk of shaken baby syndrome
Important: If you ever feel overwhelmed and worried you might lose control, put your baby in a safe place (crib) and step away. Call someone for help. It's okay to take a break.

This is NOT Colic

See a doctor if these symptoms are present:

  • Fever: 100.4°F (38°C) or higher
  • Vomiting: Projectile or forceful
  • Blood in stool
  • Poor weight gain
  • Diarrhea
  • Lethargy
  • Crying all day (not just evenings)

When Does It End?

  • Most improve by 3-4 months
  • Often ends suddenly
  • Babies who had colic grow up healthy
  • No long-term effects

Summary

Colic is incredibly difficult, but it's not baby's fault or parents' fault.

It will end. Hang in there. If you're struggling, ask for help. Don't try to handle it alone.

Sources: American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), Mayo Clinic